Though Valentine's day is generally associated with celebrating romantic love, it is a perfect time to tell all of your loved ones how much they mean to you. One of the most meaningful ways in which to do so, is to tell them directly. Too awkward and embarrassing you say? Not a problem. Let your pen or keyboard do the talking for you.
Whether writing a note, letter or including a letter on a scrapbook page, be sure to go beyond just saying "I love you." Not that there's anything wrong with saying it. The thing is that although those three little words convey a deep sense of caring for someone, they are inherently vague and do not communicate why it is we love someone. What is it that you appreciate, love or admire about the person? Have they been there for you through thick and thin? Have they offered unconditional love and support? Have they been your shoulder to cry on? Does the person inspire you to reach for your dreams and accomplish you goals? Be sure to detail the things that make them special to you. Aside from the time invested in writing the note or letter and the ink and paper, it will cost you nothing. Yet, it will be more meaningful than you can imagine. Don't be surprised if your note or letter is later tucked away by the recipient of your kind words in a safe and special place (such as a bible or treasure box) and revisited in the years ahead.
Lilia L. Fallgatter, JD is a writer, speaker, interpersonal communication specialist, adult Education Administrator and author of "The Most Important Letter You Will Ever Write, How To Tell Loved Ones How You Feel ~ Before It's Too Late." She has written articles and e-books on self-improvement and personal growth topics and considers it her mission to help others improve their lives. Visit her website and blog at http://www.lovingletter.com and http://www.lovingletter.com/wordpress
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